#jin ling is truly a useless gay

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Exactly! We cannot be replicated, or replaced! Yet they spurn us, and the love and devotion we offer so freely. JAIL.

Our Dead Domain will be the perfect home for us and our broken, bitter hearts. Truly, it shall be the last refuge of the disparaged and neglected. As it should be.

Yes, that's a problem. We'd have to build an enormous, fully enclosed rabbit run. Hmm. It's a dilemma, to be sure!

Hi Luta!

Previous anon here! I haven't watched Between us (I think was the show called? With Team and Win) so I can only use UWMA as a reference but Pharm is very diffent from Bu Xia lol.

I'm really curious tho - Rain from LITA is also a Brat but he's different kind of brat compared to Bu Xia, isn't he?

Bu Xia seems to be naughty I guess? But the moment Chiang Ji puts him in line he stays there? I think? Maybe I'm wrong? But Rain seems to be the type to push Payu's buttons more compared to Bu Xia?

Hey lovie!!!

Bu Xia is very different from Pharm. Pharm and White are alike. Some brat tendencies, but they are really more submissive. While Bu Xia, Team, and Rain are full on brats. Now, when it comes to describing Doms and subs, you have to think of this as a sliding scale spectrum. My horrible example below.

So Rain would be in the Red range along with Team. While Bu Xia would be in the brat catagory. Pharm is subservient (just realized I spelled this wrong on the chart. Nobody judge me! I made it quickly just for this.) White is a subservient that squeezes closer to the orange side of things without fully making it to brat category.

The SAM Submissive - A SAM type submissive, also known as a Smart-Assed Masochist, is just that, a smart-talking submissive with a quick tongue. Usually, their Sammie behavior isn't actually a cry for attention; it's just their way of being playful. In fact, most SAMs when actually threatened with punishment will back off, saying that they were only playing and that they didn't mean anything by it. Occasionally, this behavior can be incredibly frustrating to their partners, but the rewards far out weigh the negatives.

Sorry this took me so long to respond to, but I wanted to do it correctly. Hope this was helpful!!! 💜💜💜